Warning, this question may offend you.....but basically im just wondering?

Calm down it's all good!! Basically everything u said makes sense and i totally agree, so i think the only problem here is that u allowed narrow-minded people to annoy u. Who gives a craaap about them?? You live your own way!! Good job respecting children and parenthood especially in our crazy times when ppl exploit their kids by raising them on live television reality shows!!:)